I believe in kindness to those who deserve it instead of love wasted on ingrates!
You cannot love everyone; it is ridiculous to think you can. If you love everyone and everything you lose your natural
powers of selection and wind up being a pretty poor judge of character and quality. If anything is used too freely it loses
its true meaning.
Therefore, I believe you should love strongly and completely those who deserve your love, but never turn the other cheek
to your enemy!
Love is one of the most intense emotions felt by man; another is hate. Forcing yourself to feel indiscriminate love is
very unnatural. If you try to love everyone you only lessen your feelings for those who deserve your love. Repressed hatred
can lead to many physical and emotional ailments. By learning to release your hatred towards those who deserve it, you cleanse
yourself of these malignant emotions and need not take your pent-up hatred out on your loved ones.
There has never been a great "love" movement in the history of the world that hasn't wound up killing countless
numbers of people, we must assume, to prove how much they loved them! Every hypocrite who ever walked the earth has had ebuldging
Every pharisaical religionist claims to love his enemies, even though when wronged he consoles himself by thinking "God
will punish them". Instead of admitting to themselves that they are capable of hating their foes and treating them in the
manner they deserve, they say: "There, but for the grace of God, go I," and "pray" for them. Why should we humiliate and lower
ourselves by drawing such inaccurate comparisons?
People who believe as I do has been thought of as being synonymous with cruelty and brutality. This is so only because
people are afraid to face the truth - and the truth is that human beings are not all
benign or all loving. Just because I/we admit we are capable of both love and hate, we are considered hateful. On the contrary, because we are able to give vent to our hatred
through ritualized expression, we are far more capable of love - the deepest kind of love. By honestly recognizing and admitting to both the hate and the love he feels,
there is no confusing one emotion with the other. Without being able to experience one of these emotions, you cannot fully experience the other.
LOVE AND HATE YOU CAN’T HAVE ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER.